Cancer patients are always the center of all the attention. Everyone wants to make sure they are getting the best therapies. That they are treated with the greatest care. That they have the best physical and emotional support.
A key player in this process is the caregiver. A spouse, a loved-one, a family member or a friend. They have taken on the task to dedicate a big part of their life to help the cancer patient.
Yet, the caregiver is often overlooked. They too have to deal with stress, doubt, anxiety and fear. They too have their mind going all over the place and start imagining what all this means for their life. And too often they have to deal with this in silence, as the point of attention is the cancer patient.
If you are the cancer patient, make sure that you share with the caregiver on a regular basis. Especially when making decisions on treatments, finances or supporting other family members (children). In my personal experience, I noticed that at one point I let go of the fear, doubt and anxiety. I moved on. I made sure to bring my wife with me on this new phase of the journey.
If you are the caregiver, make sure you get support. Coaching is a powerful tool to help you manage your mind and your emotions. And showing up as the best version of yourself is the best gift you can offer to the loved-one you’re caring for.
With love,
Laurent